At Bishop Brossart High School, there is a certain rule pertaining to the growth of facial hair for the male students. Many including myself feel restricted and insulted by this rule. There is a lack of fairness and reason seen behind it. I mean not to insult or suggest any infliction upon anyone. I ask only that you, Mr. Seither and the Board of Education who create the rules, would consider this plea seriously and earnestly. This rule should be changed or removed from the handbook so as to give students more freedom and equality among the faculty and school community. I wish that you do take this seriously, as much time and effort has and will continue to be put into it. Once again I inform you that this is in no way an attack or insult on anyone or the handbook. I am also very willing, encouraged, and obliged to discuss this issue with you personally. Thank you very much for your consideration of this plea.
Historically, socially, culturally, and even religiously, the beard and ability to grow facial hair has always had much importance and reason. The ability to grow facial hair has always been viewed as a sign and symbol of respect and maturity, along with many other ideas such as health, individuality, and common growth. All men should be allowed this common right and passage of adulthood.
The association of facial hair and respect is historical, religious, and cultural. Historically, facial hair has gifted many with added support and respect. Many of our most respected and successful leaders have born beards and facial hair: Colonel Burnside, the creator of the side-burns; General and President Ulysses S. Grant; and every president between Grant and President Theodore Roosevelt are but a few. For one specific President, and also one of the greatest, the beard played a very large role in his campaign. President Abraham Lincoln was told by a young girl that he couldn’t be taken seriously unless he grew out his facial hair. After this incident, he grew his famous beard, gaining him much support and respect as a more rugged, healthier, respectable-looking man. Even in the classroom the respect given to the bearded is significantly explicit. Before the Christmas break, when Mr. Shonebarger had his beard grown out, many of the students complimented him and there was a sense that students were more quiet and respectful. Students mocked Mr. Shonebarger to his face after he shaved his beard. They said that he “looks like a child” and “shouldn’t be a teacher” and also that he “looks like a student.” I was even told that I should have been sitting up there and looked more like a teacher or professor than he did. Also, juniors Tara Enzweiler and Dave Webster both told me that they too believe that people give more respect to someone with a beard or facial hair. These statements are all evidence of the sense of respect given to those with facial hair. In other cultures and religions the same associations are very relevant. In the Islamic religion and in many other Middle Eastern cultures and religions, the ability to grow facial hair is highly respected and hailed. Moqtada al-Sadr, a political and Shiite religious leader and a main U.S. ally, has been criticized by many of his elders and opponents for his inability to grow a very full and healthy beard. Those same Muslims believe this to be a significant sign of respect since their most high prophet, Muhammad, wore a beard and tells his followers to (Sahih Al-Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 72, Hadith # 780) “Do the opposite of what the pagans do. Keep the beards and cut the moustaches short.” Along with the respect for facial hair is the ever-present sense of wisdom and solidarity found and given to those behind it. “Father Time,” the respectable old figure of wisdom and sage, is always depicted with his long, white beard. As are two other great figures, the god of gods in Greek religion, Zeus, and our own Lord, God the Almighty, of all Christian denominations. Every artist’s rendition, child’s imagination, and most believers’ depictions show these important figures with great, white beards distinguishing them with the wisdom and respect that they hold. Respect is a very important trait and characteristic associated with and given to many who bear facial hair.
Along with the idea and sense of respect is the physical and psychological maturity associated with facial hair. Facial hair makes our faces healthier by restricting the oils that clog pores and cause acne. Acne causes severe anxiety and stress for many, which acts as a block toward further maturity and learning. The possession of facial hair can thus emulate maturity in thought and feeling in a person, allowing him to be more secure and to focus on the task at hand. Facial hair is also a very clear, significant, and substantial sign of true, physical maturity. “The hair of the chin showed him to be a man” (St. Clement of Alexandria, a Greek-Catholic convert and Church teacher [c.195, E]). Facial hair is a natural and important part of growth and maturity as a man. It shows that we are finally coming into our own. It is a form to show we are shedding our youthful shell and growing into the life of adulthood-as maturity is the essence and purpose of our learning and education, with all of the notes, homework, books, tests, etc. to educate us and bring us into a new, mature, adult world. “The nature of the beard contributes in an incredible degree to distinguish the maturity of bodies, or to distinguish the sex, or to contribute to the beauty of manliness and strength” (Lactantius, an early Christian leader, [c. 304-314, W]). To restrict growth is only to deny the inevitable and take a right of manhood away. “This, then, is the mark of the man, the beard. By this, he is seen to be a man. It is older than Eve. It is therefore unholy to desecrate the symbol of manhood, hairiness” (St. Clement of Alexandria). One part of the physically maturing person is the responsibility to cleanse and care for his growing symbol of maturity and manhood, his facial hair. Facial hair is a very important symbol of maturity and growth into manhood.
In a place in which we are taught and told to be individuals and encouraged to grow and mature, we are ironically suppressed and forced to conform to a few individuals’ ideals, instead of being allowed our own right of expression. This leaves us little for our own preference and expression. Growth of facial hair is truly one of the few things we as individuals have to show for our own development and individualism. One cannot stop another from growing taller or wider, so why should one be given the right to stop students from growing in a way that they are able because of their physical maturity, their individuality? To face the facts, many of us are already very close to being finished in our vertical growth, but if all we have now to show our growth and individuality is such a characteristic as facial hair, why not allow or even encourage that? One’s status does not give him the right or superiority over another to force his own preferences upon another, especially in a true, loving Christian community. Our open community of God would become but a fascist state, disallowing all that is different, where the message of Christ Jesus is to be different and to love and accept all for who and what they are. And to be different in the sense of Jesus’ message is to be loving and accepting of all, as the world around us is full of much contempt, bias, intolerance, and bitterness. We must ask ourselves, “What kind of message are we putting out there if we take Christ’s loving, accepting message and turn it against the world to control and conform all?” Not a very accepting and loving one. We are also sending mixed messages already, and they are there for all to see in the Bishop Brossart High School Handbook. Our school’s philosophy and objectives state respect, maturity, learning, and individuality as goals and virtues, yet page 18 has rules for the dress code and under grooming are these qualifications: “Hair should be properly groomed, neat, and clean.” This I see as important and understandable for the point of maturity and responsibility. “It may not be worn/colored in a distracting manner. Sideburns may be no longer than the middle of the ear. No facial hair may be worn.”
But who is to truly say that something is distracting, especially when we should not base judgments upon looks, and those things can not harm our education? Most find the loud interruptions of others to be much more distracting than the way someone looks, as that would be an insult to call anyone “distracting.” Also, if wearing sideburns or facial hair is a form of individuality, why is it restricted and disallowed to flourish? Is it not hypocrisy and a paradox to say so much about goals of individualism, growth, maturity, and respect, only to go on and completely restrict and suppress students from that growth? Individualism can take many forms, but when restricted in nearly all ways and forms, how are we to grow in those goals?
All in all, I believe that the growth of facial hair is a very important symbol of respect, individuality, and maturity, all things which are clearly relevant and present today. To rob one completely of this right and growth is feckless and can only lead to the unhappiness and loss of that responsibility, individuality, respect and maturity. I believe that our own Bishop Brossart Handbook is one of the best pieces of evidence to prove my point and to move our school into a much more accepting path. The Philosophy and Objectives of Bishop Brossart High School on page 3 states these objectives and responsibilities:
“The integration of religious truth and values with the rest of life is brought about at Bishop Brossart High School by:
-providing a distinctive, Catholic environment based on Gospel values.
-stressing love and responsibility to God, self, family, Church and world community.
-providing a structured atmosphere conducive to learning.
-advancing the level of competency.
-encouraging the exercise of self-direction, critical thinking and creativity both intellectually and morally.
-emphasizing, for faculty and students, recognition of and respect for diversity of individuals.
-providing programs that encourage the development of the entire person through intellectual, social, and athletic programs.
I believe these missions best support and describe my own in liberating our students from the restraints of conformity and allowing our maturing, respectable, and individualistic students to have the same freedoms as adults and faculty in the subject of facial hair. Facial hair is a very important and long-standing historical, social, cultural, and religious symbol of respect, maturity, and individuality. The restricting and insensitive rule should be changed or taken out from the handbook immediately to allow our students to grow and mature and receive the same respect and freedom as our faculty.